Last night's "Meet the Midwives" event was great. It was nice to see the faces of the new midwives (my group recently merged with another group) and hear all of them talk about their philosophies and practices and so forth. (I think this was also extra-valuable for my mom and Jessie since it was their first time meeting *any* of the midwives. I at least had already met five of the nine women in the newly expanded group.)
But the best part, for me, was the tour of the birthing center. I dunno, somehow that just really reassured me. I like to be able to picture what the place looks like where I'm doing something major, and seeing the layout helps me imagine what the process is going to be like too.
Plus, from what I've heard and read about hospital maternity ward, I get the impression that this one is *really* nice in comparison to many. ( details )
I also finally got to meet this woman my mom had been telling me about, a nurse in the maternity ward named Kathy. My mom met her through work and they instantly bonded (I can imagine the conversation quite easily: "You work at Mt. Auburn? My daughter's giving birth there!" "No way! I work in the maternity ward! Tell her to call me!") so when my mom mentioned that I was having trouble finding a birthing class, Kathy took on the mission of finding me one. So when we were there yesterday she said that she knew someone who's teaching an all-day birthing class on Sunday, June 15th. Since that's the day after my baby shower (also Father's Day which means nothing to me), it sounded perfect. So I'm supposed to call her today and find out how much it costs and whether I can still sign up for it.
Afterward, mom and I went for dinner and talked out some stuff. ( So many decisions!! ) So, it's all complicated and stuff. Still, it was good to talk this stuff out with mom, and at least we're on the same wavelength. At some point I'll have to actually start making these decisions ... eek!
Wow, this post got really long. Sorry. Or not. :)
But the best part, for me, was the tour of the birthing center. I dunno, somehow that just really reassured me. I like to be able to picture what the place looks like where I'm doing something major, and seeing the layout helps me imagine what the process is going to be like too.
Plus, from what I've heard and read about hospital maternity ward, I get the impression that this one is *really* nice in comparison to many. ( details )
I also finally got to meet this woman my mom had been telling me about, a nurse in the maternity ward named Kathy. My mom met her through work and they instantly bonded (I can imagine the conversation quite easily: "You work at Mt. Auburn? My daughter's giving birth there!" "No way! I work in the maternity ward! Tell her to call me!") so when my mom mentioned that I was having trouble finding a birthing class, Kathy took on the mission of finding me one. So when we were there yesterday she said that she knew someone who's teaching an all-day birthing class on Sunday, June 15th. Since that's the day after my baby shower (also Father's Day which means nothing to me), it sounded perfect. So I'm supposed to call her today and find out how much it costs and whether I can still sign up for it.
Afterward, mom and I went for dinner and talked out some stuff. ( So many decisions!! ) So, it's all complicated and stuff. Still, it was good to talk this stuff out with mom, and at least we're on the same wavelength. At some point I'll have to actually start making these decisions ... eek!
Wow, this post got really long. Sorry. Or not. :)